15 Tips on How to Talk to Women

Most of us as men are never taught how to talk to women.  Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman.
Instead you might:
  • Bore her
  • Struggle to keep her interested
  • Not be able to make her laugh
  • Can’t be yourself around her
  • And create NO attraction
A lot of us  blame our lack of dating success on looks, money, power, or popularity…. But the truth is if you can learn to talk to a woman, flirt with her, and turn her on… you can attract women.
Now in order for you to understand how to talk to women in a way that attracts them… you must first understand what women find attractive.
To answer this we’ll start in two steps.
What type of talk turns women off?
a.) To put it bluntly women are turned off by men who across as “needy.”  Most men don’t realize that they are coming across “needy” when talking to a woman.  But the woman picks up on it quickly.  She can very quickly tell that you’re trying too hard to impress her.  When a man tries to impress a woman it actually has the opposite effect.  It turns her off.
b.)  Women are not attracted to guys that come across as insecure.  You can’t talk to women and seem like a nervous wreck and expect her to feel attraction towards you.  A woman expects a man to be powerful, confident, and secure with himself.  If she senses that you don’t possess those traits she will quickly lose attraction towards you.
c.) Women are turned off by guys who are “boring.”  If you’re talking a woman you need to know how to keep the conversation fun.  If you continually find yourself facing awkward silences, stuck in boring “interview mode” or talking about mundane topics like the weather… you can be sure that the woman you’re talking to will quickly lose interest.
d.) One of the major factors that will kill a woman’s attraction toward you is displaying a lack of social intelligence.  Women are social creatures.  And they blindly follow the social “norms.”  If a man doesn’t seem aware of what is socially acceptable or “cool” she will quickly dismiss him as being “below” her.  An easy way to do display a lack of social intelligence while talking to a woman is to make an inappropriate comment, not take the “cues” she is sending you, or continually tell jokes that no one finds funny.
Understanding these issues, you really can’t blame a woman for not wanting a weak, insecure, socially clueless, boring, or  needy man.  Ask yourself… do you find these sort of women attractive?
Now let’s talk about…