Oral Sex Tips

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The words oral sex are so shocking to some people, we couldn’t put them on the front of this magazine. But they can’t keep us from delivering the nitty-gritty on this sexy treat.

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it’s tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing. Well, at Cosmo we’ve never been afraid of doing the dirty work for you. So here are the best tricks for giving your guy lip lovin’. Oh, and some for you to pass along to him, so he gives as good as he gets.
“Invisible oral” can boost your pleasure.
A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can’t see him. You’ll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.
There’s a gag-proof way to go deep.
Here’s a trick that gives him the illusion that you’re taking him all the way in: Place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.
You should have him at hello.
A Cosmo poll found that 34 percent of guys say they wish a girl would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he’s almost home, then ambush him.
Suction isn’t just for hickies.
Many women have complained to our experts that they have a hard time getting off while he’s down south because their guy doesn’t use enough pressure. Ask him to switch up his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead—it provides a more intense pressure.

He doesn’t always want to finish.
Many guys don’t actually want going down to be the main event. According to a Cosmo poll, 54 percent of men like oral action as foreplay.
His “boys” want to join the party.
Fifty-one percent of men complain that their girlfriends ignore their balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.
There’s a way he’s never been licked.
The meatus—the hole on the tip of his penis—is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It’s such a specific place, he probably doesn’t even realize it has feel-good potential, so he’ll love that you’ve discovered it.
Lube can taste good.
If you’re going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that. Lots of companies are making flavored formulas that taste just slightly fruity or minty, not like candy-coated toxic waste. You can buy a sample pack online at babeland.com.
Shakira had the right idea.
Many chicks complain that their guy lacks variation in technique. If you don’t want to speak up, physically move your hips, like you’re squirming from all the pleasure. It’ll give him the hint that he should vary his moves.
If you’re into it, he’s into it.
One thing that turns guys on is enthusiasm. In fact, lots of them have a hard time fully enjoying themselves because they worry that their partner hates being down there. Let him know you like it by softly moaning as you take him into your mouth.